you know what sucks? reaching out to people and making a lot of friends and flirting with boys and trying so hard to get someone to like you but no one does and you just feel so alone like what else can i do there must just be something wrong with me if i’m putting myself out there and nobody wants me
I think the thing here is to not think you’re “trying” and just “do”. Be nice, don’t try to be nice, be genuine about who you are don’t form yourself into someone you think they will like, because you will lose yourself in that. And that would be the worst thing that could happen. How you’ll forget yourself, what you believe in, your importance—all just because you’re trying for people to like you. And I know it’s hard and the bite is still harsher than the bark, but put it in the back of your head that you should just be yourself.
i don’t think you understood what i was saying at all I AM BEING MYSELF why the fuck would i be someone else that is stupid and really childish this is not middle school people just don’t like me??? i don’t try to be nice if i don’t like someone IM NOT GONNA BE NICE TO THEM simple as that i am myself to people i just a genuinely nice and friendly person i dont TRY to be that way i really don’t need your advice i appreciate you trying to help thanks but no thanks